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I remember when I went for youth service and the shock I had when i realized what was going on around me. Married girls were freely having sex with younger boys. Girls were being laid for something as cheap as buying them suya. It was horrific. This was in camp. After camp, boys were living with girls in their lodges.

Dear Dangote, Reports have it that you are the reason why there is scarcity of tomatoes and in turn highly expensive tomatoes in the market.

I was recently on a convoy where the army, the Nigeria Police and other uniform officers were in control of our movements and was shocked to note their level of brutality to fellow countrymen and women. The one that got me very angry was when we stopped to inspect a project along the road; a man wanted to pass with his car, the military officers asked him to stop, he stopped and instead of allowing him to go, (having respected their orders) they started beating the young man from the car, hence he was asked to seat on the ground till we finish. This is just a little of what these officers are capable of doing to citizens who pay their taxes to make sure that the government is running.

Osun state was the first state to declare that it owed salaries and couldn't pay its workers. Osun state had been feeding children in public schools for months spending a huge chunk of its allocation on food and catering for school children. Now osun state is broke. It can't pay salaries. Those who believe in the model of capitalism obviously could foresee a situation like this.

I have never supported a Nigerian politician because he is from my tribe. I have been proud of Technocrats from my state yes but not politicians. The reason is because it is a thing of joy and honour to know that where you come from is recognized for good. But on the larger scale i am proud of Nigeria as a whole. I am proud to be a Nigerian anytime Nigeria is mentioned outside this country for good.

 Development economists have over the years used different categorization to delimit stages of development among the nations of the world, such terms as “developed”, “less developed”, and developing”  Countries, have continued to appear in most academic works and the annual reports of global bodies like the IMF and the World Bank.

We are finally beginning to see what could mark the end of the long awaited return of the abducted chibok school girls . We are saying a big thank you to the Nigerian army and also pleading with them to intensify their efforts to rescue all the girls.

Isn't it funny how society differentiates between monogamy and polygamy and still accepts polygamy? Children from polygamous homes are looked down on yet society does not stop or restrain a man from marrying a second wife. Such ceremonies are even celebrated with a lot of the man's family members and friends in attendance.

Almost anybody can relate with this; especially those marrying for sex. To them sex is marriage and marriage is sex and the prospect of marrying a great sexual partner beats the idea that apart from sex there are other qualities you look out for in a partner. So they proceed to make a life-long commitment on the basis of sex. And when life disappoints them they soon find out that sex was never enough.

Another strike is looming and its because of the hike in pump price of petroleum. Every time there is an increase in fuel price, we go on a strike to protest.  It is true that the timing of this particular hike is questionable because of the inflation in the country but in actual fact there really is no right time to make this decision. Government is not planning to make life harder for us, her citizens and if it wasn't because of the position they find themselves in, i'm very sure they wouldn't toe this part. It behooves on us as citizens to listen to their reasons and see if there is an iota of truth in what they are saying.

Vilfred Pareto once said of his native Italy that “to live in this country, one must be either a thief or a friend of thieves”. What Pareto said of Italy many years ago is true of Nigeria as no political office holder could be said to be free of this ugly plague that have destroyed the social, political and economic spheres of the society, hence the recent statement by the British Prime Minister David Cameron, that Nigeria is “fantastically corrupt” is not far from the truth. Albeit, it should not have come from a British PM considering his country’s level of complicity in the underdevelopment of Nigeria right from the pre-colonial, colonial and post-colonial periods. Apart from shoplifting the money meant for the development in their different communities, most Nigerian leaders commit double tragedy by investing the funds in other parts of the world at the detriment of more pressing needs at home, it is estimated that over 400 billion US dollars and other properties owned by Nige

It is alarming the number of unhealthy marriages taking place in society today especially in the entertainment industry. God told prophet Hosea to marry a prostitute so the mantra goes and these men go ahead to marry them. Correction: God told prophet Hosea to marry a prostitute. It was symbolic. God was telling Israel that despite their abandoning him for idols, he was going to bring them back to him because he loved them. It was an allegory. God was telling them that despite how difficult it was for a prostitute to be married, he was going to do that for them .They offended God continually and drove him to that point of comparing them with a prostitute. The book of the prophets is filled with such allegories depicting and illustrating God’s message through the prophet at that time. Nowhere did the chapter suggest that men were free to marry prostitutes or that prostitution was a thing to be celebrated. Man out of the depravity of his mind has connived with his soul to

With the removal of subsidy and petrol selling for N145 per litre, Nigerians are thrown into panic and fear because of the purported effects of the deregulation with some envisaging further inflation. But the purpose of deregulation is intended to do the exact opposite. If well managed this deregulation could mean that; other players come into the downstream sector and price is pushed downwards with the creation of private refineries, scarcity will be addressed. creation of jobs across all Nigerian sectors and reduction in importation further strengthening the naira. Nigeria is going through trying times but remember America went through a recession in 2008 and today they have recovered. With good policies driving the economy, Nigeria should be able to come out of where it presently finds itself .

While I was growing up, it was believed generally that a man should not hit a woman and that a husband should not beat his wife. Now I am hearing something different; that a man can beat his wife because some women deserve to be beaten. The problem with the women in this generation is lack of character, lack of respect and for some a tendency to cheat on their husbands.

The discovery of oil in commercial quantity in the 50s was welcomed with fanfare and great anticipation for a better future for the nation’s growing population. However, over the years the nation’s oil industry has been greeted with a lot controversy, the major part of which is on how the downstream oil sector can be effectively managed.

Whenever people with bad behaviour or people involved in bad activities achieve a measure of success according to their own standards, they attribute it to God. A God they do not believe in neither do they obey. But their success could actually be attributed to likeminds identifying with each other. People who have the same set of values will value and support anything that relates to what they believe in. The next time someone says God helped him and you observe that what he is doing is not in line with God, just say in your mind, birds of the same feather .

The President on Friday 6 th  of May signed the 2016 budget into law, thus becoming an Act of the National Assembly; this was after series of imbroglio that greeted the Appropriation bill. A budget of N6.06 trillion is certainly the biggest budget since the nation’s independence in 1960, albeit this government may need a lot of borrowing to fund infrastructural development and stimulate the economy for productivity. It is however important to remark that it does not make any political or economic sense to sign the National budget of the largest country in Africa by May, almost at the middle of the year, the dry season runs between October and May, therefore one wonders at how the roads already earmarked in the budget be fixed. More so, this is not a good time for the nation economically, as every sector of the economy is snowballing into calamitous end waiting to be rescued. Meanwhile, since the composition of the present government on May 29, 2015, they have continued to put up

WHO OR WHAT IS A ROLE MODEL? A SIMPLE DEFINITION- A POSITIVE EXAMPLE, SOMEONE YOU ARE WILLING TO EMULATE. In todays Nigeria, a role model is anyone who acts in a movie or who sings in the entertainment industry. And my question is what is there to model from a possible drug abuser, a pornographic actress, an adulterer, a philanderer and the likes. You model after character, ethics and morals and not after anything else. It is ridiculous to refer to such people as models. They do not even come close .

SO MANY MARRIAGES ARE FAILING . LETS EXAMINE ONE OF THE ROOT CAUSES OF MARRIAGE FAILURE-INCOMPATIBILITY. DO YOU KNOW THAT MANY COUPLES ARE HIGHLY INCOMPATIBLE AND ARE STILL TRYING TO MAKE THEIR RELATIONSHIP WORK. LETS LOOK AT IT: He is talking about dating while you are talking marriage He hasn't told you that he prayed about it or what God told him concerning the relationship. He talks about his former girlfriend all the time. He keeps ranting to you about the kind of girl he wants to marry when you should be the one telling him about the kind of guy you want to marry. INSENSITIVITY-he hardly notices when you are going through pain. He keeps making jokes about your looks while he thinks he is the most handsome guy alive. He expects you to be the one complimenting him when he hardly pays you a compliment. He doesn ' t respect spiritual things. IF YOU MEET THIS KIND OF GUY, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE . Marry someone who mirrors your life goals and ambitions. Who has hardwor

FAYOSE is not a man I admire so much but I have to agree with him on this one; After President Buhari, we do not want any senior citizen or anyone who has reached the age of retirement as our President again or if possible as any politician elected into any office. President Buhari was chosen because of his impeccable reputation for Integrity. A much needed quality in today's Nigeria. We want a leader outside their generation. One who is young, strong and vibrant. This brings to mind a lot of questions; The generation after, are they ready to pick up from where their fathers have left off? Many of them are dancing away in clubs, worshipping celebrities and seeing nothing wrong in it. I must sound a note of warning here, it is only by positive values that you can transform a nation. As the bible says "righteousness exalts a nation". America is great today because of their founding fathers. Or maybe to this generation, they would rather be bypassed and

We should focus more on the PREVENTION of diseases instead of their cure. Excessive intake of sugar dominated beverages can cause diabetes. Same way the intake of foods high in cholesterol is bad for heart health. Living a healthy lifestyle will go a long way in preventing sugar-related and heart diseases . Living a healthy lifestyle includes eating healthy and exercising regularly. Eating healthy includes eating fruits and foods rich in fibre content. Eating healthy can make you eat all your favourite foods like Salad without the toppings and all kinds of delicious fruits. EXERCISING regularly like taking long walks or walking on a treadmill is also good for the heart  and reduces body fat .

A friend of mine was complaining that Nigerian men were going outside of Nigeria to marry girls from other African countries like Ghana, Kenya, Sierra Leone etc. And can you blame them? Someone said according to his own statistics 90% of the girls in Nigeria are recycled. Some of our men are still sensible. They are not prophet Hosea. They are men who still value the old traditional values they were brought up with. Someone was gisting me about a particular girl in her university who was a live-in-lover to one particular guy. According to this my friend, the guy literally used to wash her underwear all for this girl to go and marry one man working in chevron. Do you think the man she married might not have searched and searched until he concluded that probably all girls are the same and went ahead and married her ? Another friend was gisting me of his ex-girlfriend who broke up with him and went back to marry her first boyfriend. These are the kind of women we have in Nige