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Dear readers,  A neighbor is a tenant living across from you in your vicinity. They come for activities if invited or shun you, gossiping behind your back is rather juicy, you see. A neighbor could be reserved or commonly talkative. Anyways, is it right to confide in your neighbors?  The answer really, is No. An exception could be made to cases where the neighbor could help the other medically. Such cases include when a child is convulsive, epileptic and this can only be helpful when the neighbor is well versed in the treatment of such conditions, not because you want his or her help.  > Other cases can involve when you need a cup of Garri or Maggi or water. If it's not important then really! Why! What's a cup of garri that you got to collect from your neighbor that laziness pinned you from getting yourself via money. You would be surprised how much, the number of times you collected garri could fill out a cup while they counted it for you in their secret rooms....

I will never understand people with no morals or people who engage in crime. You do yourself more harm than good when you choose to live a life bereft of good morals. It is simple mathematics; Indulge in pre-marital sex, stand the risk of getting infected with an STI and having an unwanted pregnancy which could lead to abortion. Smoke and be at risk of addictions and eventually lung cancer. Refuse to work hard and stand a chance of being poor Become a thief and get caught and spend a good portion of your life in jail. Vices do not pay and many people are still dancing to the tune of their lusts, deceived into thinking they are living the good life while only storing up regrets for their future. Be smart today and choose wisely the kind of life you will live; choose the kind that pays in the end .

You know the popular saying....God told prophet Hosea to marry a prostitute and so we have witnessed marriages to women who previously would be termed loose. The men marry them because they say these women are good in bed and that to them sex is the most important thing in a marriage. And many girls are advised to be freaks in the sheet to get a husband. Someone called it Nigerian men and the whore mentality. Stating that the reason some girls were not married is because they are good girls. And that men preferred bad girls.