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THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN

A virtuous woman is not just a wealthy woman or a very wealthy woman. The virtuous woman in the bible was noted for two outstanding qualities; her extreme sense of balance and her fear of God.


I have heard people throw the phrase around oftentimes referring to wealthy women who know not God and of course are not interested in walking in his ways.

For the virtuous woman, marriage was a destination. She was a fulfilled woman maritaly. Her husband found her incomparable to other women. She attracted a sincere man because of her character and faith.

Today many women complain that their men cheat on them. They want a God-fearing man but they do not fear God. They want their men to treat them like princesses, value them and respect the vows they made together. But how do they treat their sisters (other women folk)? Have they taken the time to develop qualities that would make a man deny himself the rendezvous of sexual pleasure from illicit affairs and be drawn back home?

The cure for cheating in society today is ''if a man can do it, why can’t a woman do it''. So men and women are in a cheating competition.

Some teachings have suggested that everyone should get married. My take is that only those ready to stay in a marriage should take the pleasure to get married.

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